Saturday, March 27, 2010

Brenna's Doctor Visit.....

We started out Thursday headed to Jackman, ME. Brenna has been very tired and run down during times over the past 2 months. When she feels this way, her color is pale gray, she sleeps most of the time, and she doesn't eat. We thought it could be due to an iron deficiency and we wanted to get her a complete physical. Jackman is about 2 1/2 hours away from Quebec City. The reason for the trip is that we could not find a doctor who wanted to see Brenna in Quebec City thus the reason for the long drive to Jackman. (No problem!....if you ever find yourself lost, I mean totally lost and in the town of Jackman, stop by Bishop's General Store and get a huge Philly Cheese Steak for $5.99!...it's the best!)

We had a good bit of snow fall the two days prior and the drive was beautiful! We saw so many deer along the way! A hunter's paradise! As we entered into Jackman, we saw these two deer at this house. They were actually feeding at his garage door!
On the way, we had to stop to let the pregnant lady make a pit stop! So we loaded up on a couple of A & W rootbeers! (Are you jealous Grandpa?!)

From there we entered in Jackman which is a very, very small town with no fast food shops and no major motel/grocery chains. There is one little grocery store and a couple of mom-n-pop restaurants. We stopped at Dr. Doyle's office which is part of the small one room "emergency" room, the tiny nursing home, and the town clinic. Dr. Doyle is the doctor for all of them.....and her nurse serves double duty as the school nurse as well.
We took Brenna for her physical and Dr. Doyle suggested that we draw some blood and run some tests for possible problems with diabetes, thyroid, and iron. They also are going to test for something else but I do not know what it is.....
We talked with Brenna the night before and talked about what exactly will happen if the doctor has to draw blood. We talked about the tourniquette (I think that is how it is spelled?), the test tubes, the needles, etc. She just sat there and looked at the needle and didn't even flinch when the needle went into her arm!!! The nurses were so proud that they gave her handfuls of stickers!
We waited for 20 more minutes for the results of two of the tests. She has no iron nor diabetes problems! We praise the Lord for that! We will not know about the thyroid until next week because that test needs to be sent away. Thank you to all of you who prayed for her. Please be in prayer about the thyroid test.





Thursday, March 25, 2010

My $5 Challenge.....

O.K....I let my wonderful wife talk me into making and posting this $5 challenge. (The things we do for our wives!)

So here it is the "low-down" to the $5 Challenge.......We were challenged to go to the dollar store (any one) and purchase no more than 5 items of a $1 or less. These items are then used to make a "deco" or decoration with the theme of "Spring". We can use glue, paper, paint, or other supplies that we have at home to make/put together the items that we purchased. Then we are to post a tutorial on our blog with the instructions of how to make it.

So here we go! These are my four items from Dollar-rama here in Quebec City.
1. Little wreath with teal colored balls/eggs.
2. Little ceramic candle dish. (Remember, these dishes are 3/$1.....just remember to take all three when you buy them...I only grabbed one and forgot the other two!)
3. Little pack of flowers from the scrapbook section.
4. Little pack of metal butterflies from the scrapbook section.
All of these items come in different colors.
(My fifth item I kinda took from our bedroom......a used candle my wife had, I could have bought one at the store for a dollar but I wanted to save the money!)

First step is to hotglue the wreath to the candle dish. (Remember! The hot glue does burn flesh!...yes I tried it...)

Next you will glue the little flowers around the wreath with hot glue and then glue the butterflies around the wreath as well.


For the final product, take your wife's candle from the bedroom and place it in the middle of the dish/"deco". If you then present her with the gift and say, "This is for you." , she won't be mad that you took her candle.
Here is the link from where my wife got this $5 challenge idea:
Since I have no comment section on this blog, my wife said to put our email address if anyone wants to comment or contact: kamishay@aol.com

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Nobody Told Me I Needed Two Messages.....

Pastor Coté of a nearby church was in the hospital this week with some heart complications. He needed someone to fill the pulpit in his absence after having a heart CATH. I said that I would gladly fill in and I was told that I just needed one message for Sunday morning.

After arriving at the church just a few minutes before the services started, I was asked by one of the men if I was ready to preach two messages. YIKES!!!! I told him that I had left my english bible with all of my notes back at home and brought just my french Bible with only the notes for my one message. He looked over at Josh who had come with me and said, "Joshua has his english bible, maybe you can use his."

So, I took Joshua's Bible and found some of his notes from a message that I had preached from who knows how long ago. I preached the first of my two messages using his notes! When I was done preaching, people went up to Josh and told him how wonderful his notes were!........I thought I preached the message.......

Monday, March 15, 2010

This-n-that....

Sunday:
We had a great day yesterday. We drove the 1 hour 15 min drive to Trois Rivieres. (Have I ever mentioned that I hate time-change Sunday....you know, the one you lose an hour of sleep) We had a wonderful service as Pastor Hamby was in North Carolina. Kami played the piano and I preached the AM service. We went to one of the church families' house to eat lunch. MMmmmm.....Montreal seasoned Steaks and Mashed Potatoes!!!! Then we went back to the same family's house for supper before the services that evening. MMMMmmmmm.....authentic chinese soup! ...I mean the real stuff, it was so good. For the PM service I preached in French. Everyone was so encouraging and said that they could understand every word. Then we made the trip back home and didn't waste any time getting to bed...we were tired!

Beth's Birthday:
I have a 12 year-old daughter!.....Time does seem to fly! We brought some of Beth's presents to Trois Rivieres for her to open and even brought along a cake to celebrate her birthday. Saturday evening, we wanted to do something special for her birthday so we took her to a used bookstore and then we went to Le Manoir du Spaghetti for dinner. Madame Claire, our professor, gave us 2 coupons that we used. Each coupon was for a 2 For 1 meal. So basically we got two meals for free......trust me, I would have hated to see what the price would have been without the coupons! Beth loves Spaghetti and this was the second restaurant that we have been to since being here for 10 months. (We are not counting Burger King of course!) We gave her a new book for her birthday and she had it read by the time we reached Trois Rivieres! She is a bookworm....

Upcoming Details:
- Please do not forget to pray for Brenna's upcoming Doctor's appointment next week.
- Kami still has 10 weeks left in her pregnancy. Please pray for her, the baby and the finances.
- We will having a young lady from one of the area churches to come to our house starting next Tuesday to help us in French. She has volunteered to come over and speak French with all of our family to help us practice and hear French.
- I will be preaching the Mission's Emphasis Sunday at the end of April and teaching Sunday school. The catch is that it must be all in French!
- Continue to pray for our support level to increase. We have had many verbal committments from churches and we are still waiting for their committments to become reality. We still need some more support before we can leave for St. Barths after we finish Language school.

Thank you to all of you who pray for us on a regular basis!

Friday, March 12, 2010

There's a Birthday on the Horizon!

Sunday, March 14th will be Elisabeth's birthday. It was 12 years ago when I delivered by baby girl....yes Daddy got to deliver this wonderful, sweet, precious little girl (not by choice, mind you....our midwife was 5 minutes too late!).
Elisabeth (aka: Beth, Bethy-Pooh, Beefy [thank you Aunt Taylin for this nickname!]) is very tenderhearted and so caring. I have to admit that out of all the children, she has needed the least amount of discipline because her heart is broken so easily when confronted when she has done wrong. She loves working with her Momma in the kitchen and she has her Daddy's personnality: a perfectionist! Beth, you bring joy to our hearts and trust that one day, you will raise a beautiful family for the Lord and be a wonderful help-meet to the young man that I am praying for every day (no I don't know who he is, and I'm not planning on liking him very much when I first meet him.....who knows, it may take years before I ever like him!)

I love you so much my Elisabeth. Happy Birthday!!!

Tuesday, March 9, 2010

Prayer Request Updates:

Bro. Jerry Nye:
Word came today that Bro. Nye came through the surgery fine and is on the road to recovery. Praise the Lord!

Brenna:
We have an upcoming visit with our doctor in Jackman, Maine on the 25th. She will have a full physical and also test her for anemia. The only drawback is that the drive to Jackman is 2 hours away. The great part is that Bishop's gas station in Jackman has the best Philly Cheese Steaks!!! MMMmmmmmmmm!!! (After eating this huge, cheesy, greasy, jam-packed with steak, sandwich....I can have my cholestrol checked!)

Saturday, March 6, 2010

Update On Bro. Jerry Nye

We just got an email that Bro. Jerry Nye has 4 blocked arteries and will be undergoing open heart surgery some time in the next couple of days. Please continue to pray for him and his wife.

Prayer Requests....Please Pray......

I am asking all of our brothers and sisters in Christ who read these prayer requests, to hold these requests and families before the throne of God. The first two are requests we received via our mission board and the third is a personal request for our Brenna.

1) Pray for Joshua Fleming. We received an email from Jeanette Cullers telling us that Daniel and Susan Fleming's 2 year-old son Joshua has been diagnosed with leukemia. The Flemings are missionaries in the Far East. The doctors in their country said that Joshua is too ill to travel, so coming back to the States appears to be out of the question. The first tests done on Joshua do not look good. The last email I received said that Joshua has been given blood and seems to be a little stronger. Please remember this dear family in your prayers!!! !They have many decisions to make. We will keep you informed as we receive more news.

2) Pray for Jerry Nye. Brother Jerry has been diagnosed witha 90% blockage in one artery. Tomorrow he will have a heart cath to checkfor other blockages and to insert a stint into the blocked artery. He is inthe hospital at Northside Hospital in Atlanta. Sister Dee says that he is doing well.

3) Also, we are taking Brenna to the doctor today (Saturday AM). She is still "run down" and very fatigued for the past several weeks. Oft times she is so sleepy, that she cannot finish school. We have been giving her Flinstones vitamins with extra iron and this has helped a little. However, she has started running a fever for the past couple of days. This has been an on going problem for several weeks now. We will keep you updated.
(Update Already: Never mind the doctor thing today......the doctor here refused to see Brenna this morning.....first they claimed we weren't residents of Les Saules [our neighborhood we live in] although Kami brought proof we live here.......but ultimately, it comes down to whether the doctor feels like seeing you or not. If they don't want to, that's the end of the line, you cannot go to a different medical "walk-in" clinic. I really don't know why they call them "walk-in" clinics, because "walk-in" clinics are supposed to be based on anyone coming in off of the streets to get care. I guess our next option is driving two hours to Jackman, Maine. At least there we know we can be seen right away and get in quickly, except for the 2 hour drive. However, we have been told that we could probably get to Jackman, be seen and treated, and drive back before we would probably have been seen at an emergency room here.)

Thursday, March 4, 2010

Story Very Worth Reading.....

We received this email from a missionary that we know who is using his personal plane to deliver supplies and help to the Haitians. This is one of his updates and I thought I would put it on here for you to read....it definitely sheds some light and opened my eyes to the UN and humanitarian efforts in Haiti and how people abuse the help that is extended to them.


Today was a much different day in Haiti . Either I have been to busy notice or maybe I just opened my eyes or maybe things are really starting to change here. I ate dinner tonight at the permanent United Nations Compound here in Haiti . (The place is huge!) I had the privilege of eating dinner with Jeff, a family practice doctor from Miami . As we ate we shared our stories and things that I have seen and done here really came into focus. After we discussed our lives at home Jeff began to tell me of the things he has seen. He told me how that at the Miami Hospital the majority of things have moved from the immediate care to therapy and other such work. I began to realize that this is no longer a recovery effort but more of a welfare effort. Today, we had a plane with 71 parcels of tents, beans and rice arrive. For the first time the Haitian Customs officers mounted with side arms arrived with lights flashing to receive the airplane. The officers demanded manifests reporting the goods point of donation and a tax exemption status, otherwise the goods would be all taxed. Of course, this was unreasonable, and a blatant attempt of robbery from an unknowing volunteer pilot. After nearly an hour, the officer finally said that if they would give them each a tent they would let the goods through customs.
There are others places into town where the damage is very limited and not so wide spread. But these people are getting the relief supplies just like everyone else. So, they have taken the unneeded goods that set up shop on the sidewalks. If you cannot get a bag of USAID rice for free in Haiti , just let me know, because I have seen the places you can buy some. Some have huge bags of shoes and clothes that were given from across America and now they have a department store in their house. Then the areas that have been hardest hit still get their supplies at the same rate and are in much worse despair.
Since I have been here I have had many people come and ask me for a job. They tell me that they have lost everything; they tell me that there family has died, they tell me that no one will help them. They say everything is destroyed and they cannot find any work. That statement struck so different today than other days. I had some young Haitian men tell me that they could not find any work. They spoke very good English, so I looked at them and said, “What do you mean you cannot find anything to do! All I see around me is, something to do. I said go to your house and start rebuilding it.” The one who appeared to be the leader said, “We don’t get paid to rebuild our own houses.” To which I replied, “I don’t get paid to build your house either!” The Haitians are wondering the streets still looking for someone to take care of them, but really it is time that they start something on their own. I could not begin to explain how many thousands of Americans are here as volunteers, many are missing work and an income, to help these people and the people are doing little to help themselves.
Corruption is starting to fester out at the lower levels. Today, I filed a flight plan for leaving the country. The first thing the man said to me was, “Have you ever been in Haiti before.” I knew that was a setup question. So, I responded, “a few times.” He said, “How long have you been in Haiti ?” Another setup question. I said, “A while.” He asked many questions to which I replied with vague answers. I knew after the earlier extortion that they were trying to get my money. The funniest question he asked was, “How many times did you land?” To which I replied, “Which Time!” He had no clue what to say. So anyway, he said he could not accept the flight plan without payment for services. I asked what services? He said for the traffic control. I said it belongs to us the United States , remember yours fell down. Then he asked me, “Who owns this airplane you fly?” This guy was wearing me out, we were 20 minutes into a 30 second paperwork swap. So I said, “That airplane belongs to the King.” Finally the other agent says, “If it is a King we cannot charge him.” With that they took the paper and I left.
Trust me there is enough money behind the gates of the United Nations gate to make a real difference in this country. But they will not. All they do is driving around diplomats with their lights flashing and the guns showing. I have seen many many UN convoys of trucks leave the compound and drive through town, all without one single grain of aid for the people. They fly the huge helicopters day and night. Not one time have they carried a single bean. I know men here from Florida flying the R-44 delivery for the very remote areas. The UN has a picture up of a pilot carrying a box past his UN helicopter in one of the villages. The one problem is the UN helicopter went in empty and the box came out of the R-44, and the R-44 is not even in the picture.
Well, enough for now, I will be returning to the US tomorrow if all goes well and the weather cooperates.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

A Good Day.....

We had a wonderful day today and ended with a good church service. When we woke up this morning, we had plenty of time for Bible reading, prayer time, breakfast, and our time together around the table quoting some scripture and singing. Lately it seems that our mornings have been very rushed and we scramble out the door but this morning we had plenty of time to spare.

We had our french class and we are learning more and more every day. (Although the articles and pronouns are giving me fits!) We have been watching more french TV and understanding more than we have the day before. Our teacher really expressed our need to watch as much french TV (News, weather, games shows) as we possibly can. This will help us to get an ear for the language.

When we got home, the kids finished school and asked if they could play outside. We decided to bundle up Silas as well and he went outside to play with the "big kids"! He doesn't like to walk in the snow but loves to run around the on the driveway. In fact, when we get him dressed in the mornings, he heads for the front door, opens it up, and heads outside on his own!
(What wonderful older siblings our little Silas has, they constantly pick him up, kiss him, hug him, check on him while he takes his naps and play with him. It is truly a joy for them to take care of their little brother)
This evening at church, we actually had an extended conversation all in french before the services. A WHOLE CONVERSATION !!!! It feels so good to be breaking through this "wall" of not being able to communicate in more than a short phrase or word here and there! We still have a long way to go, but praise the Lord we are making great strides to learning and being fluent in french.
(P.S.....My mother-in-law ["belle mere" in french..which means "pretty mother"......don't ask...I don't know why either!] is coming for a visit during the time the new baby is born. We are looking forward to being able to talk in front of her in french, this is going to give her such a complex and make her think that we are talking about her all the time......heee heee heee......)

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

The Sunday Special Report!

(Kami and Silas ready for services to start.) (Getting the van cleaned-off from the snow Sunday morning)
(Here is a picture of Sunday morning at Eglise Baptiste de St. Augustin)Our last blog update mentioned that on Saturday evening we had a family time as we discussed exactly what makes music "right" or "wrong" and what pleases our Heavenly Father. It was interesting to note that on Sunday evening, the message from Pastor Roy was on how to determine if music is "right" or "wrong"! It was in French and thus we did not understand the whole message but enough to recognize that the message was about the same thing we had discussed the previous night as a family!

Elisabeth and Brenna are excited about their upcoming opportunities to develop a Sunday school lesson in French. It will not be an easy task for them but one that brings the opportunity to develop their french skills. Once they have written their lessons, they will then teach the lessons in their Sunday school class. Thank you so much Mrs. Roy for working so hard with our children!