Well, today marks the first time that we have allowed Joshua to travel all by himself. We woke up this morning at 5:15 AM and Kami fixed one of Joshua's favorite breakfasts....chocolate chip waffles! (She even threw in a cup of coffee for me!) Then we put his luggage into the van and dropped him off at the airport for his 1-stop flight to Halifax, Nova Scotia.
This story began back last November when we were at a mission's conference at Sackville Independent Baptist Church in Nova Scotia (just outside of Halifax). What a tremendous meeting we had there and what tremendous fellowship. The night before we were to return home, I noticed Joshua was struggling emotionally. At close to midnight, he asked to talk to me and confessed that he didn't really want to return to Quebec for language school (not that he wasn't going to come back with us, but that emotionally and spiritually he was struggling). You see, for the previous several months, he had not been able to understand any preaching, singing, nor be involved in any conferences or revivals that he loves so much. In reality, we were all struggling with culture shock as well and getting discouraged at not being able to understand anything during a regular church service.
If you don't think that this is a difficult thing, I want you to attend a church service in a foreign country and in a totally different language. Not just one service, but Sunday morning, Sunday night, and Wednesday night, week after weeks. You sit there not knowing what you are singing (nor how to pronounce it) and not understanding anything being preached. Just sitting there for over an hour with your mouth hanging open and a blank stare! Not just one service, but service after service for 6 months and approaching one year!
Joshua missed the fellowship of young people that he could play with and fellowship with. Most of all, he missed the preaching, conferences, revivals, and special singing that we were so used to week after week on deputation. We spoke to Pastor Dodd (of Sackville Ind. Baptist Church) before we left to come back to Quebec about our culture shock and mixed feelings. He and his wife were of great encouragement. Pastor Dodd did more than just give us counsel and pray for us, he brought our family for prayer before their church and asked for prayer especially for Joshua.
Then a couple of months ago, I received an invitation to be the guest speaker for the Teen Conference at Sackville. However, due to our new baby being due too close to the conference date, I had to decline the invitation. However, the invitation was still open for Joshua to attend the conference. Our brothers and sisters in Christ at Sackville saw a need that Joshua had, a spiritual need to be part of a conference with preaching aimed directly to his age and needs. The members of Sackville bought Joshua a roundtrip airline ticket to attend the conference which starts tonight (Friday)!
After much prayer, (and a momma shedding tears and saying, "My baby! I'm not letting him get on an airplane by himself!) we knew that God was providing a way for Joshua to be a part of what he loves most.....preaching and singing! I don't know if I have ever met a young man who loves to be at any place where preachers are gathered, more than Joshua. So this morning, with carry-on luggage in hand and passport in pocket, we watched him "slip" through the security checkpoint at the airport and disappear behind the "wall" of parental control and protection. Yes, our son for the first time was on his own to land at a totally different airport, find his new gate, board another plane and then locate the youth director of a totally different church in a totally different and far-away city. (Not to worry, we gave him a calling card and he called his dad at Montreal and then at Halifax to tell me that he was fine!)
For a 13 year old, he can act goofy, loves to bother his sisters, play tricks on his mother, and yet truly wants to please our Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. And this evening, as I write this update, I am praying that God would touch the heart of a young man, the heart of my son. That God would encourage his heart and bring back a stronger, even more dedicated Christian young man whose heart has been touched and whose "soul panteth after thee , O God."